‘It’s just not OK’: How a Port Moody bakery is fighting back against rude customers

This story first appeared in the Tri-City News on Nov 5, 2024

Lisa Beecroft was so sad and mad with the way some of the staff at her Port Moody bakery have been treated by customers, she took to Facebook to express her frustration.

The response, however, has reaffirmed Beecroft’s belief in the kindness and decency of most people and bolstered her commitment to creating employment opportunities for all.

More than a third of the workers at Beecroft’s Gabi & Jules bakery on Clarke Street, and a second location in North Burnaby, self-identify as having a disability.

Most are on the autism spectrum, but, Beecroft said, some don’t disclose their disability at all; they just know they’ve found an inclusive place to work that makes them feel safe and valued.

Since the COVID-19 pandemic, though, Beecroft said some of that sense of safety has been eroded by the rudeness and impatience of some of the shops’ customers.

“It’s a range of things, the tone and the aggression that’s coming across,” Beecroft said. “People are not saying ‘hello,’ they’re not looking people in the eye.”

When a manager recently brought the demoralizing nature of such customer interactions to Beecroft’s attention, she said she was crestfallen and frustrated.

“It’s just not OK,” Beecroft said. “We can’t normalize this is the way it’s going to be.”

Beecroft decided to share her thoughts on the bakery’s Facebook page.

“It honestly breaks my heart to have to post this (long) message,” she wrote.
“In recent months, we have seen an increase in the mistreatment of some of our team members by some of our customers. There’s become frequent occurrences of rudeness, impatience and, in some cases, just blatant hostility towards our team.”

Beecroft said while some may dismiss such interactions as just a part of being in the customer service business, “it absolutely should not be.”

“Everyone deserves to come to work and feel safe, included and valued.”

She added, “We do our utmost to create that environment for our team members and we expect our customers to do the same.”

The response, Beecroft said, has been immediate, overwhelming and “really emotional.”

Words of support and encouragement poured into the post’s replies, many from customers, some from people who work with the neuro-diverse community, others from like-minded employers who are also making the effort to be inclusive.

“What you are doing there is inspiring and should be held up as the example of what good leadership and good businesses do,” said one.

“Thank you for standing up for your staff,” said another. “We should all remember to treat others as we would have them treat us, with kindness.”

For Beecroft, who printed out copies of her post and affixed them to the walls of her bakery’s Port Moody and Burnaby locations as a reminder to customers to check their hostility at the door, the responses from the community also hit close to home.

She and her husband, Patrick, set out on their journey to make Gabi & Jules an inclusive workplace because their eldest daughter, Juliana, has autism. They had to deconstruct every task in the bakery and front shop to determine how someone with unique qualifications might fit into the daily workflow while still making sense for the business’ bottom line.

The effort has paid off, though.

Employees with even the most repetitive tasks, like washing dishes or folding boxes, tend to stick around longer — some have been at the bakery for six or seven years already.

“We’ve attracted people to the business because they want to work here,” Beecroft said. “They feel safe in the space.”

Maintaining that safe feeling is paramount as their employer, she added.

“I feel an obligation because I’m putting them in this situation,” Beecroft said, “The staff just wants to make sure they’re doing a good job.”

Unique program gives Tri-Cities kids a chance to play basketball for their schools

This story first appeared in the Tri-City News on June 24, 2023

Austin Chassie is known as “Captain Hustle” on the basketball court and he couldn’t be prouder of the nickname.

Chassie is one of dozens of neuro-diverse students from six high schools across School District 43 who participated in a unique three-on-three basketball program that could become a template for inclusion in other school sports like soccer.

Mike Viveiros, the athletic director at Heritage Woods Secondary School in Port Moody, said the idea for the unified program that brings together neuro-diverse and neuro-typical students to develop their athletic skills, learn about things like teamwork and perseverance and give them a chance to represent their schools grew from a similar adaptive program he ran for track and field prior to the COVID-19 pandemic. He said basketball seemed a natural progression because many of the kids are already passionate about the sport and it provides them a unique opportunity to be part of a team.

“It ends up being a neglected population,” Viveiros said of the exceptional students who had the chance to participate. “We need to strive for a future where these inclusive opportunities are the norm.”

Last February Viveiros put the word out to his fellow athletic directors and got positive responses from five other secondary schools: Port Moody, Terry Fox, Pinetree, Riverside and Gleneagle.

With some funding and resources from Special Olympics BC and support from the school district they were quickly able to put together a six-week season of jamboree-style games culminating in a championship tournament that was won by the Port Moody Blues.

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Players from the unified 3-on-3 basketball programs at Heritage Woods and Port Moody secondary schools gather at an outdoor court to celebrate the success of their first season.

Saoirse Borden coached the Blues. She’s a Grade 11 student who plays on the school’s varsity girls basketball team. She said working with the players from the inclusion program at PMSS gave her a new perspective on her sport as she broke down the skills and strategies she takes for granted so they could be learned and understood by her charges.

Borden said it was most exciting to see the rest of the students embrace the players and vice versa.

“It opened up our school community,” she said. “There was a lot of support from the student body.”

Ava Taylor said she had a similar experience with her Heritage Woods Kodiaks team. Also in Grade 11 and playing for her school’s varsity side, she was challenged to find a common ground for such a diverse group with different abilities and ways of learning.

“Everyone had a different starting point,” she said.

Alicia Waet said she’d never really participated in sports prior to joining the Kodiaks’ unified team. But with a season now behind her, she said it was “great to make a lot of different connections with people I didn’t know before.”

Teammate Ramtin Rouhi said being on the team “made me feel awesome” and helped develop his skills in shooting and defending.

Viveiros said the players’ enthusiasm is infectious.

For the championship tournament, the gym at Heritage Woods was packed. Terry Fox Secondary had the support of its own cheerleading squad.

And when the Blues returned to Port Moody Secondary with the first place trophy, the team was greeted by the school’s marching band.

Viveiros said the success of unified basketball’s first season is the kind of breakthrough that could increase inclusionary sporting opportunities at schools in the Tri-Cities and beyond.

Already there’s been inquiries from other school districts like Surrey and Delta.

“Why aren’t we celebrating these kids like this?” he asked. “It really gets me emotional every week watching the successes of these students playing alongside their peers in the student population.”

But for Captain Hustle, aka Austin Chassie, the reward is more fundamental.

“I like making opportunities for my guys, help them be better at everything,” he said.